Creating an authentic wedding

 

With stories of wedding stress or more specifically wedding planning stress constantly falling from the lips of those that have already been there and done it, you may now believe that it goes with the territory and think everyone has to suffer it.

NOT SO! I say. There is another way and it depends largely on your approach, attitude and perception of what your wedding is all about.

Your Wedding is a creation. Piece by piece you bring together the elements that will eventually be identified and remembered as your wedding day.

You face one of life’s great opportunities to truly express yourself before an audience of people that love and care about you. It’s an enviable place to be!

Getting Married from the Inside Out can help you rise to the occasion and take great pleasure in putting together a day that is authentic to you and your partner.


Authentic, means ‘of undisputed origin’. Therefore an authentic wedding will

  • come from you
  • represent you
  • capture your essence as a couple and as individuals
  • communicate your intentions
  • radiate your energy
  • reflect your personal, individual style
  • be connected to you and you to it

The result is a wedding that has meaning, feeling, warmth, poignancy, beauty and above all HEART and SOUL … and your guests will have no doubt that this wedding belongs to you two.

Your ability to create an authentic wedding is greatly assisted by your willingness to embrace your Rite of Passage and allow yourself to come to terms with the Change of Identity that you are moving towards.

Each area of the Wedding Journey serves and supports the others. When there is confidence, courage and clarity of mind, there is room for creativity

So, once you begin to peel back the layers of who you are and contemplate what getting married means to you, you can put together a wedding day that aligns with your values, beliefs, hopes and vision.

This is the opposite of planning a wedding that is driven by the need to impress and responds heavily to outside influences and expectations.

Those who fall into the trap often find that as their wedding plans grow steadily bigger and more elaborate, their sense of self gradually ebbs away, with it their sanity and ability to deal with things.

When you create your wedding from the Inside Out and aim for something that is honest, genuine and true, you will be surprised at how positive your experience can be.

It is a challenge and their will be set backs but your sense of achievement from creating this day that is an extension of you and your life, will put you on a GREAT BIG HIGH!!

Don't forget, to help you further, you can download my in-depth article 7 Real Reasons for Wedding Planning Stress and How You Can Completely Avoid It - for free.

If you would like to receive personal coaching to help you create your Authentic Wedding you can contact me for more information.

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