Clearly, in factual terms, when you get married, on the outside,
your social status will change from being a single person to
a married one.
And, as a woman, you will make the decision of whether to change
your title of Miss/Ms to Mrs and alter the surname that
you have always had.
The point is that you actually take the time during your
Wedding
Journey to thoroughly consider what that means to you
ON THE INSIDE!
- Is changing your identity in the eyes
of society and the law merely a formality to you or does it go
much deeper than that?
- How does it affect your perception of
yourself and all the roles you play in life?
- Will you still see and think of yourself
and your partner as individuals or will you think and behave as
a couple?
- How may your married status affect the
way that society sees and treats you? What are the pros? What
are the cons?
- How will you feel about losing your single
status and single life? What emotions are attached to that?
Just examples of questions that you can ask yourself to help you
to come to terms
with your changing identity.
It’s a BIG DEAL!! It deserves your ATTENTION
and CONTEMPLATION.
No wonder so many brides, experience emotional chaos and confusion
(a.k.a. wedding stress or wedding anxiety) when they choose to focus
on table decorations instead of confronting what is happening
to them ON THE INSIDE as well.
When you address your attitude and acknowledge your thoughts
and feelings, you will be making a conscious effort to prepare
yourself for what lies before you. And that will give you:
confidence
clarity of mind
greater self
awareness
ability to make
decisions easier
which will all make your
experience of your wedding journey richer,
more rewarding and much more enjoyable.
You are Getting Married.
A change of identity is part of your Rite
of Passage. It is going to happen.
GIVE YOURSELF THE BEST CHANCE AND MAKE SURE THAT YOU ARE READY FOR
IT!
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