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What is it exactly?
It’s a thorough process of preparation for your wedding
day and marriage; a positive step by step approach with an
uplifting perspective on getting married and planning a wedding.
Getting Married from the Inside
Out is about
- Being absolutely clear about what
you are doing, why you are doing it and just what it means
to you
- Being emotionally and psychologically
prepared for this big life event so that you can bring your
whole self to your wedding day and into your marriage
- Enjoying this precious time of life
as you plan a day that really represents and reflects
you and your partner so that you feel free to be exactly
who you are on your wedding day (rather than something and
someone that you’re not).
The usual approach is to immediately focus on the elaborate details
of the wedding but here, initially, the main focus is on
YOU-on your development and self- preparation as you
move towards your wedding day and married life.
Getting
Married from the Inside Out is
alternative Marriage Preparation for 21st century living. It's the
holistic approach for a complete experience!
Why is there a need for
it?
As the real meaning of a wedding and getting married becomes lost
in the frenzy of todays lavish wedding planning, the unattended
thoughts, feelings and emotions begin to run riot and before long
they are out of control.
It's a sad fact that
- Many literally wish away the months
before their wedding because they become overwhelmed and
feel unable to handle the pressure. Some say that they barely
recognise themselves and their unreasonable behaviour.
- The challenge of perfect wedding planning
can leave the bride emotionally frazzled and fraught
and unable to really enjoy the day.
- Many experience their big day in a disconnected
bubble and say that it went by so quickly that there are whole
chunks they simply don’t remember.
- Some brides have reported waking up on
the first day of their honeymoon wondering what on
earth they have done!
- Some women (1 in 10) find the comedown after
their wedding so severe that it becomes a lingering depression
- now recognised as Post Nuptial Depression - which hinders their
ability to happily adjust to normal married life.
The Inside Out approach
to Getting Married will provide you with a very helpful perception
of the events that lay before you so that your transition from single
to married is a relatively smooth one.
Who's it for?
The modern, smart-minded bride (or groom) who is
looking to prepare herself to get married so that she can
understand, embrace and enjoy this significant event in her life and
successfully adapt to being a married women in a 21st Century World.
It’s also for anyone looking for support, inspiration
and encouragement at any stage of their
wedding journey.
The information, guidance and help available here is not just
for first timers either. If this is your second, third or even
fourth time getting married, it is still a big life decision
and one that will benefit from such a considered approach.
What are the benefits?
There are many, here are some of the main ones
- Exciting revelation and self discovery
resulting in increased self awareness
- A clear mind which breeds confidence
and an ability to retain control of things
- Big reduction on nerves,
stress and anxiety as you learn all about this Rite of
Passage and transition of identity and understand how it affects
you.
- Real enjoyment
and fulfillment planning your wedding
as a strong sense of self emerges and with it the ability
to make creative decisions for an intimate day
- Emotional and mental clarity
and freedom allow you to be present and in
the moment on the day (so you can remember each precious
moment)
- A rewarding engagement period will impact
positively upon your wedding day and a rich wedding
experience helps the transition into married life.
When you are clear and sorted
on the inside you
will find that everything else on the outside is so
much easier to manage.
That’s
why Getting Married from the Inside Out
works so well!
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