What is it exactly?

It’s a thorough process of preparation for your wedding day and marriage; a positive step by step approach with an uplifting perspective on getting married and planning a wedding.

Getting Married from the Inside Out is about

  • Being absolutely clear about what you are doing, why you are doing it and just what it means to you

  • Being emotionally and psychologically prepared for this big life event so that you can bring your whole self to your wedding day and into your marriage

  • Enjoying this precious time of life as you plan a day that really represents and reflects you and your partner so that you feel free to be exactly who you are on your wedding day (rather than something and someone that you’re not).

The usual approach is to immediately focus on the elaborate details of the wedding but here, initially, the main focus is on YOU-on your development and self- preparation as you move towards your wedding day and married life.

Getting Married from the Inside Out is alternative Marriage Preparation for 21st century living. It's the holistic approach for a complete experience!

 

Why is there a need for it?

As the real meaning of a wedding and getting married becomes lost in the frenzy of todays lavish wedding planning, the unattended thoughts, feelings and emotions begin to run riot and before long they are out of control.

It's a sad fact that

  • Many literally wish away the months before their wedding because they become overwhelmed and feel unable to handle the pressure. Some say that they barely recognise themselves and their unreasonable behaviour.

  • The challenge of perfect wedding planning can leave the bride emotionally frazzled and fraught and unable to really enjoy the day.

  • Many experience their big day in a disconnected bubble and say that it went by so quickly that there are whole chunks they simply don’t remember.

  • Some brides have reported waking up on the first day of their honeymoon wondering what on earth they have done!

  • Some women (1 in 10) find the comedown after their wedding so severe that it becomes a lingering depression - now recognised as Post Nuptial Depression - which hinders their ability to happily adjust to normal married life.

The Inside Out approach to Getting Married will provide you with a very helpful perception of the events that lay before you so that your transition from single to married is a relatively smooth one.

 


Who's it for?

The modern, smart-minded bride (or groom) who is looking to prepare herself to get married so that she can understand, embrace and enjoy this significant event in her life and successfully adapt to being a married women in a 21st Century World.

It’s also for anyone looking for support, inspiration and encouragement at any stage of their wedding journey.

The information, guidance and help available here is not just for first timers either. If this is your second, third or even fourth time getting married, it is still a big life decision and one that will benefit from such a considered approach.


What are the benefits?

There are many, here are some of the main ones

  • Exciting revelation and self discovery resulting in increased self awareness

  • A clear mind which breeds confidence and an ability to retain control of things

  • Big reduction on nerves, stress and anxiety as you  learn all about this Rite of Passage and transition of identity and understand how it affects you.

  • Real enjoyment  and fulfillment planning your wedding as a strong sense of self emerges and with it the ability to make creative decisions for an intimate day

  • Emotional and mental clarity and freedom allow you to be present and in the moment on the day (so you can remember each precious moment)

  • A rewarding engagement period will impact positively upon your wedding day and a rich wedding experience helps the transition into married life.

When you are clear and sorted on the inside you will find that everything else on the outside is so much easier to manage.

That’s why Getting Married from the Inside Out works so well!

If you are intrigued to find out if the Getting Married Inside Out Coaching Programme is right for you please contact me to discuss your situation


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